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Life Groups at Saint Matthias are a sermon-based small group ministry that take place during three sessions spaced out over the calendar year - Winter, Spring, & Fall.   

Fall Groups 

 


Monday Evening: ZOOM only
Dates: 10/4-11/15

Time: 6:00-7:30pm

Leader: Dcn Luke Childs (& Dolores Vargas) 


Wednesday Mornings

Dates: 10/6-11/17

Time: 10:00-11:30am

Leader: Fr John Roberts 
Location: Parish Hall with masks or Courtyard with masks optional when weather permits

 

Wednesday Evenings

Dates: 10/6-11/17

Time: 6:15-7:45pm

Leader: Fr John Roberts 
Location: Parish Hall with masks
or Courtyard with masks optional when weather permits

Thursday Mornings

Dates: 10/7-11/18

Time: 10:00-11:30am 

Leader: Larry Johnson

Location: Parish Hall with masks or Courtyard with masks optional when weather permits

 

SAMPLE WEEKLY QUESTION SHEET

This week’s sermon was on the Parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32).

 

Getting Started 

1. What insight, principle, or observation from this weekend’s message did you find to be most helpful, eye-opening, or troubling? Explain. 

 

 

 

2. If you had to identify with just one of the three individuals in this parable (the father, the young prodigal, or the older brother), who would it be and why? 

 

 

3. In the Old Testament, the nation of Israel was infamous for rebelling against God’s leadership. This week, we’ll look at two psalms that show how God responded when they acted like a prodigal. As you read, notice the points where God’s response parallels the following four principles we learned from Luke 15.   

•If a rebel insists on leaving—let them leave.   

•When things get tough—let them hit bottom.   

•When they come back—run to greet them.   

•After they’re back—don’t punish the obedient. 

a. Read Psalm 78:54–64 & Psalm 106:32–48 and jot down any insights, questions, or key observations. 

 

 

 

4. Have you ever learned a valuable lesson because of a failure (big or small) that God or someone else stepped back and allowed you to experience?  (You will not be required to share this answer with the group.)

 

 

 

5. Do you agree with the following statement? “The older brother in this parable responded appropriately in light of what he knew at the time.” Explain your answer. 

 

 

 

 

Digging Deeper 

7. When faced with a prodigal in your life (assuming that the prodigal son can represent a family member, a friend, a coworker, or a social outcast), which of the four principles for loving and responding to a rebel do you come by most naturally? Which comes hardest? 

 

 

 

8. Is there anything you need to do as a result of what you’ve learned this week? (You will not be required to share this answer with the group.)

ANSWERS to all the most important questions about this session's Life Groups …   

How are this sessions Life Groups going to be different from the Life Groups held back in the Spring?  
This session we will not be having any Hybrid groups that include both zoom and in-person participants.  

We will have one group that is Zoom-only on Monday nights.  The rest of our groups are meeting in-person in the Parish Hall (masks required) or in the Courtyard (masks optional) when weather permits.  


When do Hybrid Life Groups begin?
Our seven week Fall Session will begin October 3 and conclude by November 18th.  

What exactly will happen at these group meetings, anyway? 
A typical meeting will be structured as follows…​

  • Sharing ≈ 15 minutes

  • Study & Discussion ≈ 30 minutes

  • Prayer ≈ 10 minutes (One Sentence Prayers only!  See below.)

Whoa!  Prayer?  What if I’m not very comfortable praying out loud? 
No worries!  Each Life Group meeting will conclude with a time of prayer for concerns shared by group members.  However, the style of prayer that will be used is called “One Sentence Prayers” where participants are invited (though not required) to pray just one sentence out loud for a particular request.   

Will I have to do anything to prepare for the weekly meeting?
Listening to the sermon on Sunday will cover 75% of your preparation.  However, each week we are in session you will be given a Questions Sheet as you leave Church, to reflect on and complete before your Life Group meeting that week.  These questions should take approximately 25 minutes to complete and are intended to guide & enhance the group discussion.  A sample Question Sheet is on this page.

What if I miss a Sunday? 
If you miss a Sunday, we’ve got you covered!  The audio and manuscript of the sermon, as well as the question sheet, will be posted by Sunday afternoon each week at saintmatthiasoakdale.com/lifegroupthisweek

What if we have young children? 

This session of Life Groups we will not offer childcare.  Those with young children are encouraged to join the zoom-only group.    

What if we have an infant? 

Any parent with an infant is welcome to have their child in the meeting with them, if they prefer.  

How can I sign up for a Life Group? 

We invite you to fill out the form on this webpage, contact Fr John, or leave a voicemail at the church (209-847-2012)

What if I decide I don’t want to stay in my Life Group?

If you have some doubts about whether a Life Group is a fit for you, we encourage you to sign up and try one for just three weeks.  If during that time you decide you don’t want to continue with the group, you can drop-out with no questions asked & no drive-by-guiltings.  And when the time comes for the next session, you will be free to sign up again for any group with openings.   

When will I receive information on how to access my meeting?  We aim to provide detailed instructions for both internet video chat and telephone dial-in no later than Noon on Tuesday, September 28.

What if I want to change groups after the first session? 
No Problem!  At the conclusion of each Life Group Session you will be given a card asking you whether for the next session you intend to remain in your Life, try a new Life Group, or take a break from Life Groups.